Curiousity like a nun or a negress or a girl with glasses

Yeah, that worries me. People making such a commitment so early in their lives. So much changes as a person gets older, not only where they end up but who they end up being as well. I'm certainly different than I was in high school and I think most people are. Plus, I think of my friend who got pregnant and married straight out of high school and I think of all the things she has missed out on. I'm sure she's happy, but I gotta wonder if she has any regrets. Your cousin may be scary-responsible, but hopefully she's smart enough to wait. If he's the right person, he'll still be there when she finishes college and has a better sense of self/who she is.