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[blustocking]

Some people wear their skin well...I have never been one of those people.
I wish I had less arrogance and more self-confidence. It's much more attractive.
Attractive, attractive, it's all about being attractive.

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[savvyscribe.livejournal.com]

Unfortunately. :(

I would give anything for a shred of self-confidence. I have the self-esteem of a mushroom.

There must be a store around here somewhere.

[blustocking.livejournal.com]

I think all of the self-confident people are keeping it a secret. I bet it's a big bulk discount store like Cost-co.

If I find some, I'll give you half. :}

Re: There must be a store around here somewhere.

[savvyscribe.livejournal.com]

That would be great!

Although, I'm starting to think that self-confidence is just a facade.

I could be wrong. I often am.

OR...

[blustocking.livejournal.com]

You could be right. I'm sure everyone has their weak-spots or days-of-low-self-esteem, just seems that some people have them less often.

I liken it to comedians/actors who don't care how they look, but end up looking more attractive for not caring. I envy that. Perhaps my problem isn't just low self-confidence, but caring way too much about how I look. Unfortunately, I don't think that's going to change, so I opt for more self-confidence.

But maybe you're right. I can bullshit my way through on paper, but not when it comes to my looks. Perhaps it takes a certain self-marketing confidence to get there. It's not what you say, but how you say it kind of thing. That seems so seedy though. I know a few people who I think have real self-confidence. I wonder if it's as easy as they make it seem?

Pardon my ramblyness. :}

shhhhhh....

[fivestar.livejournal.com]

Wanna know a secret? You have to focus on all the good things about yourself. Miss Blu, you have tons. Everyone has things they can't stand about their looks, their brains, their personalities, but everyone knows deep down that there is at least one thing they love. You have to hold on to those things. Once you get that down, you do just what you said up there. Stop caring about the rest. YOU know what's cool about you, if someone else doesn't see it, fuck em. Their loss.

But you know what? I just looked at a whole bunch of pictures of your pretty face, so I don't want to hear it missy. You's hot. ;)