Curiousity like a nun or a negress or a girl with glasses

um, I'm not saying your feelings aren't valid, but maybe it was just a case of miscommunications of opinions? is that possible?

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I hate matter-of-fact opinions and I found his comment (http://www.livejournal.com/talkread.bml?journal=blustocking&itemid=197619) way out of line.

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hmmm. I see what you're saying, but I don't think he was trying to offend. It sounded like he was just stating his personal opinion of those organizations...he did say that he agreed with them philosophically, which, in a sense, was a supportive comment, in my opinion...I dunno...

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I don't piss on somone's good deeds...even if I don't agree with them. I tend to expect the same.
The comment was unecessary.

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That's totally fair. I'm not big on downing someone's social action either AT ALL, I guess I just construed the comment as something else. Looking at it from that perspective, the comment prolly wasn't necessary, you're right....

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I'm only able to look at it from that perspective at the moment. So your take on it is, and was, helpful.

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...but I'm also sorry that you're feeling bad... :(

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I think I can guess who you are talking about, and from what I've seen, you seem completely justified in being pissed off (or at least being sick/tired of it). They seem to be the type of person who disagrees with everything regardless of what was actually said. You know, the type of person who says it isn't raining even though they are getting soaked. They also, after time, generally resemble the type of person you just want to slug. :)

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HA!

I thought about being childish and agreeing with you, just to prove you wrong, then i thought you'd probably have no sense of humor about it all and it was just serve to enflame this situation since she'd come to your defense even though im trying to be as lighthearted as possible about this.

PS Miss Stocking I responded on my journal. i suspect you havent defriended me because you are waiting to see if i respond. feel free to respond on my journal,you wont sully it up. I dont talk about people, directly or indirectly then expect them not to respond, or ban them, thats childish.

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I haven't defriended you because I'm not that petty. I don't hate you, I just don't agree with your actions/re-actions.

I'm done.

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catnamedcosette.livejournal.com

I really didn't want to get in the middle of this, I was just supporting Blu and letting her know she was justified in the way she felt because, regardless of what you might say, I've noticed that nearly EVERY TIME you reply to something in her journal, it is to disagree with something she said. And not only are you disagreeing with whatever she says, but you are generally shitting all over something she believes in - such as a particular band she likes (and shitting on her friend as well since it's his band), music she's listening to, or a cause she champions. I'm all for voicing one's opinions, but you seem to be of the opinion that yours is the only one that counts and any that go in opposition of your own must be wrong.

Also, Blu posting in her own journal is not childish, (I would guess) she was merely trying to get out her frustrations without attacking you directly/personally. That seems to be "acting like an adult" to me. Children are the one's who throw sand in each other's faces.

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"such as a particular band she likes (and shitting on her friend as well since it's his band)"

i'll say remark on two things that you are incorrect on and then i'll let this go, ok?

I never said ANYTHING about her friend, just the music.

And I didnt say SHE was childish at all, you need to read what I wrote.

Good day.

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Obviously you don't hold music to be a personal issue. Maybe you should realize some people do.

I don't recall ever insulting your tastes. I don't feel the need to publicize my opinion in such a way that it would bring others down. If I REALLY disliked anything you were listening to (as an example) I would see no reason to tell you that in your journal. I don't understand that and perhaps that is where our biggest difference lies.

You do only seem to comment in my journal when you have something negative to say. Why is that necessary? You can hide behind the "I'm entitled to my opinion" if you would like. But I still don't see what purpose it serves. I didn't ASK you for your opinion.

Hmmm...I hate Creed. Perhaps I should go look up everyone with "Creed" as an interest and mock them in their journals. That would be ever so productive and make me feel like such a smarty-pants

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In hindsight, i realize why you might think im a very negative person.

It might perhaps have more to do with the fact that i don't know you at all other than what you put here. So i talk about what i know about. You post an MP3, i listen to it, BOOM conversation piece. You talk about a band i know..BLAMO something to talk about. You talk about politcs, I can talk about that.

We have talked about bus rides but the rest of the stuff (personal drama etc) I don't know anything about, so i dont want to interfere or I have nothing to say on it.

Now thinking I purposely seek people out just to disagree with...well, you and that other person here can eat poop on that point because that couldnt be further from the truth.

Im not THAT bored.

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No, I don't think you actually do that. I was just using it as an far-fetched example.

But yeah...probably 75% of what you've said to me has been negative about something I like. I don't need that. I don't know many people who do. I'm trying to understand what purpose it serves.

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I was gonna let it go, but I'm bored so...

1. Shitting on the band he is apart of, or a particular song, is in fact shitting on him. I might be wrong, but as a musician, I take HIS MUSIC to be a facet of himself.

2. I know you didn't call Blu childish, but you did call her actions childish, which is what I was referring to - the action.

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noooo i didnt call her actions childish either. PLEASE re read what i wrote. I was speaking generally, i was saying that i EXPECTED her to reply to me on my journal and that ANYONE who talks about someone, whom they know is reading along, and prevents them from responding is childish. She nor I have done neither.

Maybe i worded it wrong but i wasnt calling he or her actions childish.

im a musician too. i've played radio stations and live shows, ive gotten bad reviews and good reviews, and i know how to take them maturely. I don't take a bad review personally. I don't know the guy, nor pretend to know the guy. Any musician who takes negative opinions of his music half as personally as you and she has made has no business in music at all.

fuck.....i was going to let that go, but you had to go and be wrong again.

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