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Nov. 20th, 2002 01:17 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
blustocking"If she could just get down to using only her brain stem, she'd be cured.
This would be somewhere beyond happiness and sadness.
You don't see fish agonized by wild mood swings.
Sponges never have a bad day."
--from Choke by Chuck Palahniuk
This would be somewhere beyond happiness and sadness.
You don't see fish agonized by wild mood swings.
Sponges never have a bad day."
--from Choke by Chuck Palahniuk
Re: I don't think I know you very well....
Date: 2002-11-20 02:19 pm (UTC)I've seen you around LJ, we have some of the same friend I think.
I found that site while looking up "sociopath" in reference to a friends ex, she kept calling him one, and I didn't know what made one, so I looked it up, and found that site.
NPD is fascinating to me, because I'm convinced someone I know has it, totally, 5 out of 9, more like 9 out of 9. :) Thats me, I obsess.
MPD is weird tho... isn't it usually attributed to chemical imbalance or massive sexual abuse while young? Interesting....
:)
Have fun reading!
heheh (that was me)
The book I ordered I found because of this (http://www.sidran.org/didbr.html). I was so interested in our resident bookstore "crazy" that I started a little research.
My ex, mild sociopath.
His Mother, total bitch. But she was a psychologist and even told him that's what she thought he was. Though, it didn't seem to bother her at all. It took me a few years to see she was probably right. Oy.
Yeah, I figured that out! ;p
Date: 2002-11-20 02:56 pm (UTC)A girl "friend" I know... TOTAL NPD!
I was so relieved when I found that site, to know I wasn't the crazy one!
(of course in true obsessive pattern, I now wonder about everyone! Including Dana, who I subjected you to, sorry about that!)
:)
Me, oh, I'm just a wee bit co-dependant!
;)
Re: Yeah, I figured that out! ;p
Date: 2002-11-21 12:38 pm (UTC)Now, it's just amusing...in a sad, sad way. I often think of that night (that she lost her purse) when I pass by that club or that area.
Bah, no worries. ;)
Re: Yeah, I figured that out! ;p
Date: 2002-11-21 01:03 pm (UTC);)
Re: Yeah, I figured that out! ;p
Date: 2002-11-21 01:16 pm (UTC)Heeeheheh. :)
Re: Yeah, I figured that out! ;p
Date: 2002-11-21 01:19 pm (UTC)Or it may have been some sort of passive aggressive anxiety attack because we didn't do what she wanted to do.
;)
One day I'll finish writing out that trip.... :) I think I'm far enough away from it now. You know, her and I never talked again after that trip. Tho she did still borrow my car when she felt like it, and I had to stalk her to get the keys back when I was selling it. She'd just take it without telling me. Fun fun fun. :)
I'm so sorry! The 2 months that I'd known her before the trip had been a blast!! Honest! I thought it was going to be fun!!
:)
Re: Yeah, I figured that out! ;p
Date: 2002-11-21 01:31 pm (UTC)I can't believe she would just take your car! That's so completely out of line, it's amazing. Then again, some people just can't think about anyone else it would seem.
Don't even apologize. I felt more sorry for you having to get back on that plane with her. >_
Re: Yeah, I figured that out! ;p
Date: 2002-11-21 02:07 pm (UTC)were you there in the airport for the final hissy fit with her Mom on the phone, longdistance, at the check in counter screaming crying and swearing?
I'm amazed they let us on the plane!
:)
ahhh.... good times....
They let her on the plane, with no ticket, with no idea, without anything at all checked... Like to see someone try that now!
:)
Re: Yeah, I figured that out! ;p
Date: 2002-11-22 01:00 pm (UTC)LAX was so, well, lax (har har) before Sept 11.
Re: Yeah, I figured that out! ;p
Date: 2002-11-22 01:19 pm (UTC)AND she'd managed to complain so much about being broke the Loco gave her $20!!
I couldn't believe it!
Cuz Loco was just as broke as we were!
I didn't know about it until we got to Newark and she bought some fast food!
Crazy dude... hey, did I ever pay you for the phone bill she rang up on you?
Please tell me I did... that was like $40!!
:)
Re: Yeah, I figured that out! ;p
Date: 2002-11-22 01:24 pm (UTC)The puffer fish lotion dispenser is sitting here on my desk though. It's come in very handy, and it's purple, can't go wrong. :D
Man, the Jen is so nice. :)
Re: Yeah, I figured that out! ;p
Date: 2002-11-22 01:27 pm (UTC)I'd forgotten about that!!
HA!
:)
I still have a pirate air freshener tuck away somewhere, and a Willy Wonka bar (uneaten)
Neato!
It's just as I was typing it that I was wondering about the money.... I know you sent me the phone bill, and I was going to try and get money out of her, but realized that would entail talking to her, so I was gonna pay it myself... but I don't remember if I did!!! :( doooood, if I had the cash right now, I'd give it to you! Jen too! Man... that was one crazy trip.
:)
I wanna come visit again!
new subject line!
Date: 2002-11-22 01:35 pm (UTC)Yeah, those pirate air fresheners were STANKY. Good thing the smell wore off quick. Mine is hanging in my poor car. She's so neglected.
Re: new subject line!
Date: 2002-11-22 02:00 pm (UTC)But we'll see, kamikaze visits again!
:)
Would love to!
Re: I don't think I know you very well....
Date: 2002-11-20 02:28 pm (UTC)If she answers fairly and honestly (which she won't) she will be in the high to very high rating range in most of these categories. Heh, I took it and I'm just moderate to low. I don't understand how THAT happened.