yes, but do you have a flag?

[blustocking]

I swears I'm going to update more soon. The Stuff To Tell keeps piling and piling. Basically, I'm just updating right now to say...

Happy

belated

Birthday!

to motherevol

No, I didn't forget.
I miss joo. I miss a lot of you.

This is also a good place to thank two very cool and super nice wimmins who graced me with more LJ time. Thank you. I promise to make good use of it soon. :} Yay for sweet and pleasant surprises. :D

This is also a good place to thank my Jenny-Jen-Jen for a fucking cool Envelope of Goodness I received today. You shall get something in return, soon...oh yes. Seriously though, it made me all smiley and missing you somethin' awful. FOR SERIOUS.

And kitryne, e-mail me your addy...pleeeeease. :)

Quick summary for last weekend: Drove to Wisconsin, had a remarkably good time, saw Eddie in Chicago, had remarkably good seat (2nd row), missed Ian muchly, went out with my favorite queers, thinking of moving up there.

Comments

[catnamedcosette.livejournal.com]

I KNEW IT!!!! What'd I tell you!?! I've been saying since the beginning "yep, I've lost another one" and "she's fallen in love" and...you get the picture. I'm so happy for you!!!! I think this is wonderful and wish you tons of congratulations and good luck. Heh, now watch, you'll probably tell me next that you are getting married next summer. ;)

[blustocking.livejournal.com]

Dood! Don't say the "M" word! ;)

Man, I think my niece is going to get married before I do. Her boyfriend gave her a promise ring already. >_< What the hell is a promise ring anyway, but a glorified engagement ring. Pff! ;)

Promise Rings...

[catnamedcosette.livejournal.com]

It's what little boys use to get the girl to have sex with them.

"Really, baby, I love you and want to be with you forver. See, here's this little trinket of my love. Oops, it's turning your finger green? Well, my love is longer lasting...really."

Whatever. Promise rings are stupid. Of all the people I know who ever got a promise ring, not a single one of them actually married the guy.

Re: Promise Rings...

[blustocking.livejournal.com]

I'm pretty sure they've had sex already...and the scary thing is, I won't be suprised when they get married. They practically are. It's okay though, I guess. Josh is a good guy and he fits in with the family. I just wish she'd live a little more, not that you can't "live" with a husband...but she's so young and I'm scared she'll get pregnant soon too. She's scary-responsible though, so I give her a lot of credit.

Re: Promise Rings...

[catnamedcosette.livejournal.com]

Yeah, that worries me. People making such a commitment so early in their lives. So much changes as a person gets older, not only where they end up but who they end up being as well. I'm certainly different than I was in high school and I think most people are. Plus, I think of my friend who got pregnant and married straight out of high school and I think of all the things she has missed out on. I'm sure she's happy, but I gotta wonder if she has any regrets. Your cousin may be scary-responsible, but hopefully she's smart enough to wait. If he's the right person, he'll still be there when she finishes college and has a better sense of self/who she is.